February 15 Harmony with One Another 1 Peter 3:8-9
Good morning from Pastor Glen Brock, Baptist Tabernacle Church, Wendell, North Carolina … “Live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.” (1 Peter 3:8-9)
Growing up in a close-knit community, it was easy to get to know pleasant people and, equally as easy, to recognize the difficult ones! There was a particular individual that was “downright hateful.” He, apparently, had been difficult his entire life. Some said that he was just like his mother! How sad is that? Anyway, he was an active part of the church leadership, and he brought to the process his unique brand of difficulty. It appeared, from his behavior, that he was opposed to everything! I recall a time, when the “Youth” were going to prepare some “Goodie” baskets for the local Nursing Home Residents. You would think this was a noble undertaking, yet, not for him! He pointed out the issues with every opportunity to be negative and he always saw the worst in every situation. Truthfully, I had difficulty in “Loving” this man! I noticed that Daddy seemed to have a working relationship with this “Grumpy and Hateful Old Man!” So, I asked how that it was that Daddy seemed to be “friendly” to him, and, amazingly, he was, as best as he could, “friendly” to Daddy! Daddy answered with this, “Granted, he is a character and there are times when he is just plain hard to deal with, yet he is not an exception to the call to love our neighbor! The hurtful comments that he makes, and the insults and obstacles, that he like to present, have got to be covering up some personal tragedy or challenge, from his past.” Daddy instructed me to treat him with respect and kindness, even though he was a miserable human to be around! So, I tried it “Daddy’s Way,” and low and behold, this grumpy “Billy Goat” of a man, started treating me, a brash and irritating teenager, with some shockingly and amazing level of respect! “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult;” these words were so true in this case. I did some farm work for him, and I got to know him, and just as Daddy had said, he had some issues from his past that had colored his present attitude! I worked hard for the man, and finally, he was complimentary of the job completed. Hold on, wait a minute! Was he nice to me, on purpose? Friends, life can beat folks down and cause them to only see the future from their own broken experiences. Our job, our responsibility, is to “LOVE OUR NEIGHBOR AS OURSELVES!” I knew that if I could get him at Mama’s table and have him experience her unique brand of “disarming” witness through her kitchen, I would have a shot at helping him turn away from the bitterness and to move towards the HOPE for living, found in Obedience to God’s Word. Sure enough, he finally sat down at Mama’s table and my dear Mama, in her gifted and loving way, began to witness to this “Grumpy and Hateful lump of negative,” through her cooking and her disarming charm. Keep in mind, it’s hard to be grumpy with the aroma of fried chicken and carrot cake floating through the air. There it was, spread out before him, Fried Chicken, Mashed Potatoes, “Snaps,” Homemade biscuits, and that famous, from scratch, Carrot Cake! Wow! I witnessed this man have an “Ebenezer Scrooge” conversion. He remained difficult; however, he began to be a bit easier to take! I will tell you that, if it had not been for the “Booster Shot” of Mama’s Cake and Fried Chicken, and Mama’s Kitchen Counseling, he would have reverted to his Grumpy Old Ways! What would Jesus do? He told us to LOVE ONE ANOTHER, and He did not place any exceptions or unique circumstances to this decree! This experience, from my youth, has helped me minister to the “hateful” and the “unlovable!” Our call to action is simply … “Live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.” Stay Strong, Stay Focused… THE BEST IS YET TO BE!